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how do I deal, with w/ a hypocrit when she says shes a true chistiamn?

the friend that Ive spoken about also tends to act very loving and caring and supportive when we are around others like in chuch or other places in public that we may go to but shes also not like this all the time but it still brings me down Ive tried to tell her how I feel only to be ignored but shes my only form of transportation and when she invites me out I feel I have to st some guidelines , bounderies and I dont think I should have to do that so what do I do about it I have ALSO suggested I think she needs conseling or just a swift kick in the pants to straighten her out she s 55 yrs old and been actring that way ever since her mom died 41/2 trs ago and has been getting worse .

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1. let God deal with it, it's not your job. >L
2. Judge not that yee not be judged. Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone.
3. Tell her the truth and pray for her. Truth sets people free! If you cannot do it alone, bring this problem to the church counseling!
4. Its a little thing called Karma. I have the same thing at my church. This girl acts like she is all that and everyone at church loves her, but she is a liar and a two faced littled girl and she called me a slut and a whore and other obnoxious names. But i have faith that God will let others see who she really is one day and that will be the best day of my life.
5. The best way to deal with her is not to deal with her. Work on getting an alternative way of transportation and avoid having to be with her. Just because she is your only means of transportation doesnt mean you have to deal with being down everytime you are with her. Her mother died but guess what after 4.5 years it is time to start moving on. The first step to her moving on might be for you to move on. You might be the one she complains and carries on to.
6. My ex's wife is the same way. She runs all the Mardel's (christian stores) in my state. She is on all sorts of committees at the church, everyone loves her. But she's abusive to my kids and a control freak that screams to get her way. So...the church only sees the good side of her, not the abusive hypocrite she really is. I don't like it but there is nothing I can do. I figure God is going to judge me for my shortcomings too....so I try to focus more on what kind of a person I am instead of who she is. Keeps me humble.